Father's Day

Get The BEST Gifts For Dad Delivered FAST

June 13, 2018 Leave a Comment

Do you need a great gift for dad or grandpa and you are running out of time? Well, it is no secret that I am a big Amazon fan and I highly recommend that you try it, too. You can get the best gifts delivered fast!

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Amazon became my go-to shopping place when my family was under-siege with too much to do and no time to shop. I was working a couple of part-time jobs and my dad was in a nursing home plus my hubby was sick at home. There were too many places to be, all at the same time. So, I got smart and I tried Amazon Prime for free for 30 days and I never looked back.

It is almost like having an assistant. I get top quality products at great prices delivered right to my house for FREE! When I finally caught on that I also could stop lugging big items like 24 lb bags of dog food or bulk packages of toilet paper home from the grocery store, I was sold on them for good. I didn’t have to haul the stuff anymore. Amazon brings it to me. From there on out, I was smitten with Amazon. (I might add that I save $8-$10 per bag on the very same brand that my dogs thrive on by ordering online from Amazon, too. Who can argue with that?)

Anyhow, whether it is for Father’s Day, dad’s birthday or another important event, I shop Amazon every time. Right now Amazon has a Father’s Day Gift Shop set up where you can browse to your hearts’ content. It is all sorted and categorized for you. So, take a look and see what is there.

If you are not a prime member, just sign up for a FREE 30 day trial and take advantage of their really quick free shipping, too. Each item says when you will get it so you will know before you place your order.

Amazon’s Father’s Day Gift Shop by Categories

Clothing & Accessories

Electronics

Greeting Cards & Gifting Supplies

Home & Lawn

Movies – Books – Vinyl

New Startup Picks

Personal Care & Grooming

Sports – Auto – Outdoor

Under $30

Unique Gifts

Here are some goodies that I found in the gift shop but definitely check the shop out for yourself. There is a perfect gift there waiting for you.

Drone

New LIGHTSPEED Mouse for Gamers

Fun Reading Glass Stand

Trendy Under Armour Cap

Running Shoes for the Man on the Move!

Foosball Fun

At-Home-Chef Attitude Apron

20 Piece Grilling Set with Apron

Best Wooden Watches for Men

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What do you have planned for dad’s – or grandpa’s -special day?

Enjoy!

8 Great Gift Ideas That Will Make Dads Smile

May 31, 2018 Leave a Comment

Dads work hard to take care of their families. They do lots of things to show them their love. Kids love telling their dads how much they love them, too, but sometimes they struggle for a great gift idea.

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Here are just some of the thoughtful things that children can do for their dad that will really make him smile!

Wash The Car – having a bright shiny car makes dads smile big-time. If your children are young and not acquainted with the ins and outs of car washing, some supervision from you, mom, is in order. Don’t forget to have them vacuum the car interior!

Weed The Garden – does daddy like to work in the garden? Weeding is the tedious part of gardening. Wouldn’t he love having that garden weed-free? Oh, yes he would! Again, younger children may not know the difference between a weed and a beloved plant so they will need you to show them how.

Cut The Lawn – older children can surprise dad by mowing the lawn for him. Remind them to refill the lawn mower with gas when they are done so that the next time, when it is dad’s turn, it will be all ready for him.

Clean The Garage – got a team of kids in your family? What a gift for their father to find the garage clean and tidy. Get your kid-crew on the job. Some dads will really enjoy cleaning right along with their kids which is great if that makes him happy. Pick whatever way works best.

Walk The Dog – is dad the dog walker in your household? He might love a day off. If so, let the children walk the dog for him.

Take Dad To The Big Game – if dad is a sports enthusiast, take him to a sporting event. Does he enjoy watching baseball, golf or soccer? Whatever he likes the best, he will love doing it with all of you!

Make a Daddy Memory Book – make a scrap book of family memories for the man of the house. Pictures of fishing trips, family events and his special accomplishments – things that he loves to remember – should be in it.

Give Him a “Do Nothing Day!” – yes, daddy gets the whole day off. Families with teenagers can do this best. Whatever he normally would do, you all do it for him including running errands, filling the car up with gas, and completing his honey-do list.

What ideas have your kids come up with to show their dad how much he is loved?

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Fatherhood

June 20, 2015 Leave a Comment

The Essence of Fatherhood: 6 Simple Lessons

By Leo Babauta

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I’ve been a father for more than 21 years, and have 6 kids altogether, and have loved every messy minute of it.

And now I have a young brother who’s becoming a father this month, and is deeply scared by the prospect of fatherhood. He’s not sure if he’ll do a good job, worried he’ll fail.

I can tell him this: being a father is the scariest thing I’ve known in my life. All of a sudden, I was 19 and in charge of a fragile human life, so precious and dear but so flickering and easily put out. And I was completely unprepared — no class in school taught me what to do, and I had very few life lessons by that time.

It was the most terrifying experience ever. And it’s been the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done.

More rewarding than getting married, than running an ultramarathon, than starting a successful business, than helping thousands of people change their lives through my example.

But to be honest, I sucked at it at first.

My biggest problem, apart from a dreadful lack of knowing what the hell I was doing, was a sense of entitlement. My child should do what I say, behave a certain way, grow into the person I want her to be. That’s ridiculous, I now know, but it caused me all kinds of conflict in the beginning.

I now see a father not as a shaper of clay, but a herder of cats. A father isn’t molding a child into the perfect ideal of a human being he’d like her to be … he’s trying to keep her alive, and feel loved, as she grows into whatever she already is.

So for young men who are becoming fathers, and young women becoming mothers as well (because there’s not much difference other than anatomy) … here are my thoughts on herding cats. Just know that I’ve violated all of these ideas repeatedly, and learned these lessons the hard way.

Your first job is to love them. And to be there for them. This is above all other duties. Of course, we need to keep them safe and fed and clothed and change their diapers — keep them alive — and that’s important. But let’s consider that the baseline — it’s not hard to keep a child alive into adulthood. Anyone can do it with a smidgen of effort.

What’s important is whether the child grows into an adult who is loved. This is trickier, because in our entitlement to having the child behave the way we want her to behave, become who we want her to become, we tend to push, to judge, to expect, to scold, to drive wedges between our heart and hers. But in the end, all of those things just get in the way of the main duty: to have her be loved.

If at the end of your life you can say that you were there for your child, and she or he felt loved, then you’ve succeeded.

Your example is more important than your words. We often tell the child to be considerate as we yell at him, and so he doesn’t learn to be considerate but to yell (only if he’s the more powerful in the relationship). When we punish, they learn how to punish and not whatever other lesson we think we’re teaching. When we put them on restriction, they aren’t learning to share like we think they are.

If you want the kid to grow up healthy, you should exercise and eat healthy foods. If you want the kid to find work that he’s passionate about, do that yourself. If you want the kid to read, then turn off the TV and read. If you don’t want the kid to play video games all day, shut off your computer.

A hug is more powerful than punishment. A hug accomplishes your main duty (to love), while punishment is the example we’re setting for the kid (to punish when someone makes a mistake). When a child behaves badly, this is a mistake. Are we adults free from mistakes? Have we never been upset, never behaved badly, never given into temptation, never told a lie? If we have done any of these things, why are we judging our child for doing them, and punishing her for them?

What’s more important than judging and punishing, when a child makes a mistake and behaves badly, is understanding. Empathy. Put yourself in her shoes. What would help you in that situation? Have compassion. Give a hug. Show how a good person behaves, though the example of a hug. And yes, talk about the problem, get them to understand why the behavior wasn’t so great, get them to empathize with the person they’ve hurt, but learning to empathize must start with your example.

Trust them. Let them take risks and fail, and show them that it’s OK to fail, it’s OK to take risks. Don’t give them the neuroses of being afraid of every little risk, of worrying constantly about safety, of making a mistake and getting punished for it. They will fail, and your reaction to that failure is more important than the failure itself. You must show them that the failure is just a successful experiment, where you learned something valuable.

If you trust them, they will learn to trust themselves. They will grow up knowing that things can go badly but trust that all will turn out OK in the end. That’s a trust in life that’s incredibly valuable.

Let them be who they’re going to be. You aren’t in control of that. You might care deeply about something but she doesn’t. You might think what she cares about is trivial, but that’s who you are, not who she is. Let her express herself in her way. Let her figure out things for herself. Let her make choices, mistakes, take care of her own emotional needs, become self-sufficient as early as she can.

Read with them. Play ball with them. Take walks and have talks with them. Gaze up at the stars with them and wonder about the universe. Make cookies with them. Listen to their music and dance with them. Greet them in the morning with a huge smile and a warm, tight embrace. Do puzzles together, build a robot together, get into their blanket forts, pretend to be a prince or a Jedi with them, tell them stories you made up, run around outside, draw together, make music videos together, make a family newspaper, help them start a business, sing badly together, go swimming and running and biking and play in the monkeybars and sand and jungle.

Each moment you have with your child is a miracle, and then they grow up and move away and become their own person and figure out who they are and get hurt and need your shoulder to cry on but then don’t need you anymore.

And so in the end, fatherhood is being there until they don’t need you to be there, until they do again. And it’s not a thankless task, because they will thank you every day with their love, their presence, their smiles. What a joyful thing, to be a dad.

Happy Father’s Day